Melania Trump, Classy First Lady!
Melania Trump. She is a legend in the making, and well worthy of attention. Unfortunately, Melania is tough to write about for any number of reasons. Melania is a political spouse, with a legendary husband and legendary step-daughter Ivanka and lots of other political things going on. Once you start writing about political types, people get very particular about what they feel is appropriate.
|Melania Trump's official White House portrait (Source: White House).|
However, Melania Trump is the First Lady of the 45th President of the United States, Donald J. Trump. There's no doubt about that. So... let's learn about her and be as evenhanded as we can.
Given that she now is a appearing on the front pages of newspapers for absolutely no reason whatsoever, Melania must be someone that people are interested in. I mean, there's the proof.
|Melania with The Donald on the night he clinched the Republican nomination for President, 3 May 2016. Many people commented on how gorgeous Melania looked. She appears to favor white during political appearances.|
Choices must be made about what to post here. Everyone has to have a bias, right? Don't want to offend anyone. No matter what you post, someone will think you are slanting things.
Well, screw it. Let's learn a little bit about Melania and just stick with the facts. There is a lot of misinformation about Melania, but the facts are there. Buckle up, bucko.
Melania has her own page that discusses her basic life story. In essence, she was born April 26, 1970 in Sevnica, Slovenia as Melania Knavs (Melania later changed the spelling Knauss). At that time, Slovenia was a province in Communist Yugoslavia under Marshal Tito.
|Victor and Amalija, Melania's parents.|
Her father, Victor, was a Communist Party functionary of some sort, and also held other jobs. Her mother, Amalija Ulcnik, was not in the Party but was some kind of fashion designer. They are still very much with us, incidentally, and Victor bears a striking resemblance to Donald Trump.
Melania began modeling at age 16, and moved to Milan at 18.
People in Europe tend to learn a lot of languages. Melania speaks Slovenian, Serbian, Austrian, English, French, Serbo-Croatian, and German (I think those are all different languages, or at least dialects). Anyway, she speaks all the languages in that neck of the European woods and English, too.
|Melania in high school, 1984. She is the girl in the front row on the left.|
Melania studied art and architecture at the University of Ljubljana in Slovenia. She left before graduating because her modeling career was taking off. Who can blame her?
Melania has been on numerous fashion magazine covers. A partial listing:
Bulgaria: 'Harper's Bazaar' - August 2010
France: 'Paris Match' - March 17, 2005
Italy: 'Vanity Fair' - December 23, 2015
Spain: 'Hola' - January 27, 2005
UK: 'GQ' - January 2000
US: 'Ocean Drive' - April 1999; 'Vogue' - February 2005; 'InStyle Weddings' - Summer 2005; 'Avenue' - March 2010; 'Philadelphia Style' - December 2011.
In addition, she has been on tabloid covers a lot, especially recently. In fact, Melania is certain to be on a whole boatload of covers in 2016. However, these will be for her political situation, not as a model, so they belong in a separate category. The covers above ar almost all because she is a beautiful international model.
Melania currently designs jewelry. She has sold it on the shopping networks such as QVC.
Melania was in the 2000 Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue. That is pretty much the pinnacle of supermodel aspirations, and it solidifies her credentials as a successful model. She did it without any help from anyone. Melania moved to New York in 1996 before she had met Donald Trump because she was so successful. That admittedly is a common path, but only by truly top models. Thus, anyone who questions Melania's credentials as a model is ignoring the facts.
Melania reportedly was at the Kit Kat Club during New York Fashion Week in September 1998 when Donald Trump showed up with another woman. The story goes that Trump asked Melania for her number, but she refused to give it to him because he was with another woman. That didn't stop her, though, from taking his number - actually, he gave her several of his numbers.
By 2000, Melania was campaigning with Donald Trump as he tentatively ran for the Reform Party nomination. He ultimately did not pursue it past the early stages. But, they both got a small taste of campaigning - together.
Melania did some television ads around that time. In one Aflac spot in the early 2000s, she appeared with comedian Gilbert Gottfried.
Donald proposed to Melania in 2004, and they married on January 22, 2005. They had been together for several years at that point.
The wedding at The Episcopal Church in Palm Beach and reception at Mar-a-Lago was a high society event. Attendees included Katie Couric, Matt Lauer, Rudy Giuliani, Heidi Klum, Star Jones, P. Diddy, Shaquille O'Neal, Barbara Walters, Conrad Black, Regis Philbin, Simon Cowell, Kelly Ripa, and then-Senator Hillary Clinton and former president Bill Clinton. Billy Joel sang "Just the Way You Are" and "The Lady is a Tramp" (with altered lyrics).
Melania became a naturalized US citizen in 2006. She also gave birth to a son, Barron William Trump, in March of that year. Melania has taught him Slovenian, and of course he knows English. Melania calls Barron "Mini-Donald."
Melania has done a lot of charity work which has nothing to do with politics. Her charities include The Breast Cancer Research Foundation. She was Honorary Chairwoman for Martha Graham Dance Company in April 2005, and she supports the Police Athletic League, which honored her with Woman of The Year 2006. Other charity work:
- Honorary Chairwoman for The Boy's Club of New York for five consecutive years;
- In 2005, The American Red Cross awarded her with the title of Goodwill Ambassador.
- In 2008, she rang the closing bell at NASDAQ to commemorate the Fifth Annual National Love Our Children Day and the beginning of National Child Abuse Prevention month.
Melania long ago told the New York Times how she would approach the role of First Lady:
"I would be very traditional, like Betty Ford or Jackie Kennedy."
Melania was not in the Communist Party despite the fact that it was definitely around when she was a girl. Only about 5% of the population actually enrolled in the Party. It was considered somewhat prestigious, and party members were known and noticed. Melania's father, as a party member, always had a job. He and Melania's mother worked at the local clothing manufacturer, Jutranjka. She was a pattern maker, Victor was a driver for a director. He later opened a shop selling car parts.
Melania was not religious. She was not baptized, and she did not practice Catholicism. Whether she has done anything in that regard since is unknown.
Melania was discovered by Stane Jerko at a modeling fashion show for Jutranjka catalogs. She appeared with sister Ines, and it was a big deal because it was held in Belgrade. Jerko asked if he could take some pictures of Melania, and she agreed. Some of those are the black and white shots above.
|Melania in 2006. Well, Melania and Barron. Sort of.|
Melania has done some daring photo work, and fairly recently, too. She posed pregnant in front of Donald Trump's plane, which is in line with a longstanding tradition of celebrities posing whilst pregnant. That trend began decades ago with Demi Moore.
|And add Donald Trump to the mix. Look, they are proud of these pictures, nobody created them without their knowledge.|
Melania also did a controversial photo shoot for GQ. Considering what top models do, it was rather tame and tasteful, but did involve suggestive poses. That's part of the job. Melania herself has said:
"I was a very successful model and I did some photo shoots. Yes, they were a little risky, (but) nothing more than you see each year in Sports Illustrated."Well... they were kind of "risky," even for Sports Illustrated. But they were not, you know, over the line. They were European artsy photos which often get quite provocative. That's just how the modeling business rolls.
Melania wanted to become a model from a young age. She sketched designs for clothes, like her mom, and took art classes.
In New York, Melania's career took off after she met agent Paolo Zampolli.
Melania's parents are comfortable and do not impose on their son-in-law's wealth. The live in the same one-car garage riverside house that they built in the 1980s. They do spend a lot of time in the US helping Melania with Barron.
Melania has commented about her becoming a citizen:
"I went through a whole long process [to become a citizen]. It didn't even cross my mind to just stay here. I think people should follow the law."There have been questions about whether Melania followed proper legal procedure in becoming a citizen. Whatever she did, it apparently was common for models at that time. In other words, she didn't get any special favors or ask for any. She just did her job and followed normal procedure.
Melania has an earthy attitude about her husband. A contestant on "The Apprentice" said to Melania: "You're very, very lucky."
"Thank you," Melania, holding a glass of champagne, replied, smiling. "And he's not lucky?"
Most would agree that he is. Would you rather be lucky or President? Donald Trump would rather be both. And he is.
Melania has commented about her relationship:
“We don’t have fights. We disagree but that’s OK. That’s very good in the relationship,” she said. “I tell him my way and he accepts that, and I tell him what I think and he’s the same. He thinks what he thinks.”People sometimes claim that Melania does not provide "intimate details" about Donald. She says they like to spend time together, do this and that ... but, critics complain, no intimate details. Well, maybe so, but you must take into account that Melania comes from a different culture with a different manner of expressing things. Nobody wants to cut Melania any slack and imply that lack of details means there is something wrong with her relationship with Donald Trump. However, just because Melania looks like the girl next door doesn't mean that she has the attitudes and ways of the girl next door.
Melania has appeared on billboards for Camel cigarettes, Lord &Taylor and Bergdorf Goodman. She continues to have a keen fashion sense and always is perfectly coiffed. She retains the sleek elegance of a top model.
The 2016 Presidential campaign brought Melania a brand new spotlight.
She gave a speech at the Republican National Convention that included some quotes from somebody else's speech, for which the campaign had to apologize. As the campaign explained, it was the fault of a veteran speechwriter who had not properly vetted the speech. Mr. Trump and Melania forgave the speechwriter because everyone makes mistakes and she meant well. It was an innocent mistake, and Melania is no political pro. Fortunately, everyone seems to have gotten over the incident.
Late in the campaign, Melania gave a well-received speech in Pennsylvania. Huge lines snaked across the parking lot of people who wanted to see the future First Lady. She wowed the crowd.
Melania promised to work on making the Internet a nicer place.
Melania Trump proved to be a key asset of the campaign as it climbed steadily in the polls as the campaign year moved forward.
Melania kept a fairly low profile during the 2016 campaign, but then, the Trump family is large and vocal. Melania didn't really need to go on the stump to spread the family's message. Everybody looked forward to her elegant appearances. After the election, she gave a very well-received speech in which she quoted the Lord's Prayer. As noted above, Melania comes from a different environment. Others might not express themselves that way - but Melania does. And many people love it.
Melania wore an elegant powder blue ensemble by Ralph Lauren with her hair swept in an updo at the inauguration. Many found it reminiscent of another legendary First lady of exquisite taste and grace, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. Draw your own conclusions.
|Melania and Jackie (source: THE STAR).|
Melania and son Barron remained in New York City after the inauguration so that Barron could finish out the school year. Only then, when it was right for her son, would Melania move down to Washington. New York in fact came to DC for the inauguration: Melania and Barron were the "Big Apple" of President Trump's eye as he took the oath of office.
|Donald Trump takes the oath of office (Credit: Andrew Harnik, AP).|
Melania had a very simple but effective upswept hairdo for the inauguration.
|Melania wore a custom sky-blue Ralph Lauren ensemble (Photo: Getty Images).|
Later, Melania changed into a stunning Hervé Pierre creation.
|Donald and Melania at an inauguration ball (courtesy CNN).|
Melania showed off a variety of looks during the week.
|On Thursday night before the Friday inauguration, Melania wore a sequined champagne gown by Reem Acra for the Indiana Society Ball. She showed the dress off as well as any (other) model in the business (AFP).|
There is no question that Melania now is the pride of her hometown village of Sevnica and, really, her entire homeland of Slovenia and the entire world. She carries herself in a way that casts her upbringing and background in a positive light. At the most basic level, it reflects positively on the immigrant experience. It also shows that models are more than just clotheshorses, they can be refined and radiant. Really, anyone associated with Melania should be proud of her.
|Melania handles herself with poise and dignity (Courtesy CNN).|
Hers is the American fairytale, the spunky immigrant who comes to America and changes the world.